The truth about Guy bestfriends and why girls obsess about wanting tohave one

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I hate this kind of post, this is bullshit. Really. I'm sorry but it really is. What i even hate is that when girls obsess about wanting to have a guy/boy bestfriend who will do stuff a boyfriend usually does. Honey, you don't want a guy bestfriend you basically want a boyfriend. You want a guy bestfriend because you are ifuactuated with the feeling of having someone who cares about you and who makes you feel important. I'm not saying that your girl bestfriend can't do this stuff too, but the feeling is different when it's a guy bestfriend. REALITY CHECK: you're just seeking for a guy's attention, you love it when they make you feel like your on top of the world, cause tbh it's kind of a lovely feeling and another thing is that you're actually infactuated with the feeling of having that cliché kind of guy bestfriend who are in movies, books and whatnot that you end up falling for. Not all girls are like this, just most. I used to be this kind of girl though i never appreciated the feeling of having a guy bestfriend. 

Wanna know why the picture above states alot of bullshit? Because having a guy bestfriend Is really one of the best relationships you will ever have in your life. Guy bestfriends aren't perfect, they aren't always sweet, but when they say sweet stuff they mean it and it's actually the truth. They actually swear alot, they can be stubborn as fuck, they also PMS on you though, that's what you call "man period". they literally can be a jerk sometimes, they can also be a pain in the ass and you still want to keep them. when they know they did/said something bad to you they apologize to you and you know that it's sincere. You can literally tell them everything. LIKE EVERYTHING. It can be something stupid, it can be one of your deepest darkest secrets, you can talk about the most dirtiest stuff that an innocent mind cannot think of, hell you can even tell them about your period and both of you won't even get awkward with it. The word "awkward" doesn't even exist in your relationship you two are just way too comfortable with each other. They won't judge you even if they saw every side of you, good and bad. you can be the most crappiest person ever and they would still want you as their bestfriend. You know what i've learned when you have a guy bestfriend? You are the best thing that ever happened to them even if they won't admit it. 

Maybe i'm wrong or maybe i'm right idk it's just an opinion of mine.





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